Thursday, December 17, 2009

Calcutta - Purulia - Back to Calcutta

My last post on India stopped when we had gone to Calcutta from Delhi.
We arrived in Calcutta and went to our hotel there, but we didn't stay the night.
We left our things there and packed an overnight/day bag.
We went to the Calcutta train station around 9.
Left around 11 p.m. on an 8 hr overnight trip to Purulia where the ministry does leper ministry.
We arrived in Purulia EARLY in the morning and went to a hotel there where we freshened up and then had breakfast and then went out on a day where we saw and experienced amazing sites.
This is on the train after we put up the 'bed' and were getting ready to arrive.
Even though the quality of this picture is horrible, I had to include it because it helps me remember one of the worst mornings of my life!
I had developed a horrible sinus headache/migraine in the night, but couldn't really sit up to help relieve it - there was nothing - no distraction no way to take medicine -- to take my mind off the pain.
Oh, look!
Here's my friend Debbie- she was in our 'car' on the train.
It slept six - three 'bed' to a side so it was Debbie, Jeanne, myself, Matt, one of the brothers from the field, and Philip, the pastor from San Antonio who was on our trip.
That's Matt taking out his contacts the night before.
Yep, that's how much room you have.
Oh, back to my headache.
When everyone was moving around, I could take some migraine medicine and some people prayed for me back at home and I was better an hour or so later!
It was pretty treacherous ground for a bit.
I was just silently crying from pain - I mean, how 'honestly' can you cry when a brother from the field and a pastor you don't really know are sitting right across from you?
Debbie was an angel though and took care of me, providing me with kleenex upon kleenex and helping me get more comfortable.
BUT, all of that was worth it to see this!
Look at her!
This is one of the two leper colonies we visited. We were giving out food.
It was very surreal.
And ... they gave us gifts - they honored us with flowers and two wrapped gifts - a nice journal and pen for each of us and then we get to pass out food - that we didn't even purchase and parcel out but the brothers and sisters were letting us have that honor. They were taking no reputation for themselves.
It was like stacking debt upon debt as we received honor upon honor.
It was eye-opening to just experience what life is like for these people who LIVE here - to imagine. And to think about the sacrifice of those who come here to serve.
The missionaries get to be the very hands of Jesus to these people as they EVERYDAY change the dressing on the leper's wounds. For those who can't come out, they come to them!
Day in, Day out.
This missionary is a good friend of my friend Rachael here.
Later, on our trip, when we went to GFA's seminary, I heard that this particular student feeling called here and praying for the grace to come was really a great example to many other students who have followed her example.
She liked my glasses.
Jesus Well in action - bringing clean water right to you!
A Goat!
Have you bought some goats yet for a Dalit family in India?
Go to gfa.org and go to the Christmas catalog and have fun shopping.
This is where people live.
There is a Jesus Well right here - think about how much cleaner it is for them to have water that isn't being used by animals and people to bathe in.
Feeling happy yet lame - (for all of the honors being heaped on us)
As I focus on all the light, don't forget about all the darkness that is right there.
I think being surrounded by so much exciting Gospel-work it was hard to really sense the depravity of so many.
Kind of looks like all the store fronts in India - glass canisters lined up.
I guess the ubiquitous 'strip malls' are universal.
The Brother on the right has a ministry of making specific-shoes for the lepers. He was trained on how to measure their feet and make shoes that work for whatever state of disease they are in. Matt videotaping here.
One of our new friends.
Regarding the missionary in the back left standing.
I'd have to look at him twice and make sure he was there sometimes.
It was eerie how much like-Christ this man was.
Never, ever in my life have I been around someone and felt like they were not of this earth.
If Christ were here walking around, I think he'd act like this man, have the same expressions and mannerisms and love as this man.
Yes, you can get in the HOV lane.
WHY do we buy so much for our children here in America?
They hardly even appreciate it or pay attention to it because they have so much and are so distracted by media.
Sorry.
Off the soap box now.
Children at the second Leper Colony we visited.
Front left reminds me of a little girl we used to know!
(Cynthia in case you know her)
Here's our buddy just naturally and instinctively engaging and connecting with the kids.
This Brother serves in Calcutta but came along on the train ride with us.
Matt and I really spent a lot of time with him
and felt like we really got to know him, and him us.
Just the street in their 'neighborhood.'
I know you want to just scoop them up.
We were able to spend some time with these children and pass out more bags - that we didn't acquire and put together, but, it was a gift to us to be able to do that.
The people gathering for a quick meeting and exhortation.
I see pictures like this, and I have already forgotten so much of that day.
I'm glad we have pictures to remind us of what life is like somewhere else.
Not so we can feel sorry for others or feel guilty about ourselves, but so that we can have a 'shelf of realism' about the world on which to hang our thoughts and prayers.
It was a very spiritually-healthy experience to spend so much time around people who have so little and around people who have so much to give of Christ.
Yeah, so these are the girls we later scared with Matt's elephant impersonation.
It came across as scary instead of funny, I fear.
The tires are holding down someone's ROOF.
This is back in Calcutta - somehow I don't have pictures of our return train trip.
We were able to go see Mother's Teresa's ministry site and burial place.

Some machine being used to help build the church building.
Look at this sweet Brother taking such good care of the equipment!
Our buddy
The puppets were a hit, even at a ladies' Bible College.
One of the leaders really liked the puppets and wanted to be in the 'show.'
I think I was sharing my testimony here and some scripture.
Don't worry, I went before the puppets.
They aren't an act you want to follow.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

O Tidings of Comfort and Joy


Sometimes at this time of year, I have huge mood swings.
I go from happy carefree dancing around with my kids to fun Christmas music
to bawling when I read them A Tale of Three Trees.
Really, who can read that without crying?


I get so excited with Simon about all the fun Christmas things, then I grab him and get all teary-eyed telling him what a gift it was, that God became a little boy .... "Think about what it means, Simon! Jesus was a boy, living here on earth, just like you, so when you pray, you have a great High Priest who can sympathize with you ...." Well, I am a bit clumsy with my words with 5 year old Simon, but it is so exciting despite my articulations.


And ... here is something exciting for you ....
related to the word .... "comfort"
Maybe you'll think of it when you sing,
"O tidings of comfort and joy...."
this season


"God's comfort doesn't walk on tiptoe, as in a sickroom; it marches.
There is steel at its backbone.
It is a bugle call for reinforcements.
It makes us remember that the word 'comfort' is derived
from the word fortis - which means strong.
God comforts us with strength by adding resources.
His way is not to whittle down the problem but to build up the resources."

-- Catherine Marshall in To Live Again - a book I planned on skimming but had to give it more attention than I had planned

And from one of her late husband's (Peter Marshall) sermons:

"There is no hint or intimation anywhere in the Gospel
that they who follow Him shall never hunger
or be out of work
or be left alone.

No, there is no hint of such immunity....
But there is the promise of something far better....
the promise of deliverance...
not from these things...
but in these things.
There is an air of reality about the Gospel....
It is not a fairy tale in which Cinderella's rags
are changed into the robes of a queen...
but rather a promise in which Cinderella in her rags
becomes more queenly."

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Simon's Dance Moves

So we weren't going to put up a tree this year. I think after coming back from India we were just too tired to think about anything outside of normal obligations. BUT, Simon and I really started wanting a tree this week, and tonight Matt put up a tree for us to decorate. When Simon came home from school today, I told him that Dad said we could put up a tree. He asked, "How did you get him to let us?" I replied, "I asked nicely." He was SO EXCITED. This video is his response.

Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Trip to India - Take One

Here we are, in the Chicago airport, innocent.
Innocent of the blessings and surprises.
Innocent of the physical stretching of ourselves.
I think we thought all the summers of enduring youth camp as counselors would prepare us ... but this was youth camp hard core.

We left for India on Monday November 9th, flying from DFW to Chicago.
We had a 5 hour layover in Chicago waiting for the rest of our team to arrive from all of the States - Chicago, Idaho, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, South/North Carolina.
We were tagalongs on a team of GFA volunteers since we missed going with our staff group in October due to Simon having the H1N1.
This was the trip we were meant to be on, though, and the volunteers were just as impacting to us as the people we met on the field.

PLUS, they are pretty serious about the H1N1 in India, and I doubt we would have been able to get off the plane. You have to fill out paperwork before disembarking that you have not had any flu symptoms nor been around anyone with the H1N1 recently.
And, that, would have been devastating - to make the long flight only to turn around!
Plus, of course, there was no way we would have wanted to risk getting sick there OR risk infecting anyone on our team, the field, or on the plane.
It was encouraging to see God in the details, that He orchestrated things for good, and we were tremendously blessed by this particular trip and team.
This snapshot was taken the next morning.
We arrived in Delhi LATE on Tuesday night and on Wednesday we attended morning devotions with the staff at the Delhi office, then we were treated to a tour.
The gentleman above is working on a radio broadcast/translation.
The gentleman behind the glass wall is recording some teaching in another local dialect.
The view outside one of the windows in the very well cared-for and organized building we were in ----
The dichotomy was striking.
And you could really see the core value of being a people of excellence being played out in how people in the ministry treated their surroundings versus the social norm.
We were able to visit a ministry GFA has that works with the government to help runaway boys get reestablished with their families (if possible) and they share the love of Jesus with them. These boys were so sweet! The workers shared that sometimes it takes a while for the boys to put down their guard, since being treated with love is new for them, but then most of them really respond to it.
The child here, second to the right, really captured my heart; he reminded me of a little boy we once worked with in Dallas that lived in an environment that equaled some of the slum environments we saw in India. There are some parts of Dallas that are just like the worst parts of India, with the exception being that there are less people here and the government has better systems in place to help them - sometimes.
There are people here in Dallas with a blanket strung up for a door because the door was kicked in from a drunken fight. There are families in Dallas who can't afford to get their plumbing fixed and they keep a bucket for toilet purposes - I have seen a toilet 'system' in someone's kitchen in Dallas - right out in the open. I don't understand that; I can't fully wrap my mind around it, but it is a true story.
The child we know here in DFW couldn't speak and had physical limitations probably from abuse from when he was in the womb and afterwards. Anyway, it really struck me in India that here is a child that reminds me so much of someone here at home who would also benefit from such a loving environment, protection, and schooling.
Sometimes I would feel overwhelmed by how little we could do, and now I am overwhelmed by God's grace that my family gets to be a part of helping so many street children and low-caste children in Asia.
The boys read something to us and sang a song for us.
On the right, sitting in a chair is Shane from PA. He is one of the incredible volunteers that was on the team. These people have full-time jobs or responsibilities, and then, on the side, they seek out chances to go to events or schedule events where they can share about GFA and try and get missionary or child sponsorships.
Outside the front of the Delhi office.
It was such a privilege to meet this dear Sister (I'm not sure if I am allowed to publish their names).
She is the wife of one of the leaders there, and she is one of the backbones to the Ladies' Ministry projects. It was neat to meet these people that we have prayed for; it was surprising to me that they felt like family.
Every time we were about to go to another site or meet new people, I had this sense of expectancy and familiarity - like we were meeting family we'd known forever. I was really surprised that I felt that way; I think I imagined I would feel like a 3rd wheel in my western appearance.
Some posted prayers at one of the Delhi Bridge of Hope schools.
Anti-theft system
The workcrew at the Delhi Boys' Street Ministry Home
They had serious expressions for the camera (well, except one in the middle) but, in action, their faces were full of love and the joy of the Lord.
I'm not sure who this gentleman was. I think maybe he was a local believer that was helping them by making uniforms. He was definitely making uniforms for the children, but I can't remember who he was.
This is at the BOH center in Delhi. The children presented us with flowers and much honor. It was humbling, and as our trip progressed, these little gatherings became more and more humbling as they sought to bless and honor us.
This little girl, was one of my favorites, so I was glad she was sent out to give me the flowers. I think she was one of my favorites because she reminded me of Evie.
Three children outside the gates who were watching the program - there was lots of dancing and singing. Then, a puppet show from some ladies on our team.
I thought it was poignant to see the dichotomy of the hope and joy and opportunity inside the center - and then right outside more children just waiting for the opportunity.
There is such a NEED for more sponsorships for these children - I hear the numbers of how many people GFA has on the field or children being sponsored, and it kind of seems like a lot, until you go and see the need and realize we have to keep pressing on and urging more and more believers to send resources to the unreached.
Then, the joy can be theirs, too!
I believe we were told that the BOH center helps train parents to make similar clothes - a useful skill and possibly one that can help them earn money.
Inside the classroom - the girl in the front right, in the purple shirt, is the one that I mentioned reminded me of Evie. I think it was her big, wide eyed, slightly expressionless gaze that reminded me of Evie-Grace!
Debbie on the far left is a volunteer in the Chicago area, and we became dear friends on the trip. It was nice that God planted a kindred spirit right there for me.
Jeannie (in the red skirt) is a very sweet woman of God who was very encouraging. She made the two puppets that they used in the show and she made 250 or so finger puppets for us to give out to the children at different places. The puppets were a HUGE hit - even the missionaries and pastors loved them!
She sells puppets at craft shows and sends the profit to GFA. I think for all of us it was so neat to be able to see the other end of all of these efforts - whether it was volunteering, sharing about the ministry, making crafts so raise money for the ministry, serving here on staff - we all were blessed to see the other end of it all!
You definitely felt a sense of kinship and camaraderie that comes from being on the same team.
Another member of our group was Philip - pictured above. He is a pastor in the San Antonio area and has 4 young children. It was really neat to watch the special kinship that he shared with the pastors we met there.
There are certain blessings and challenges that only shepherds can relate to!
They, of course, let the children waiting outside come in and watch the program, and they received a finger puppet and the bags of food that we handed out as well.
When this little girl came in, I was struck by how different she looked than the BOH kids who live in the same place she does, but I think the BOH children receive training on some basic health, grooming, and cleaning skills.
This child's hair was kind of matted together, her clothes had flies all over them, and, when you were up close to her, you could see that her mouth was foaming. We shared some smiles and it was a blessing to see her get a bag of food and a puppet, but then, your heart ached, because you wanted to do something more for these children.
Maybe I'll upload some videos of the dancing and singing one day!
Contrary to the pictures, I am very happy at this moment - just probably jet-lagged or something. This particular brother was a great host for us in Delhi and the beginning of the trip, and at the end, too, when we came back to Delhi for two days. He was so full of the joy, grace, and care of the Lord. He was really, really, happy and has the biggest smile I may have ever seen in my life.
At the end of our trip, when we saw him again, and were more in the Indian time-zone, he was visiting with Matt and I outside while we waited for a ride to the airport. He said that at the beginning of our trip, he thought Matt seemed quiet and very independent - like a person you couldn't really get to know. But, then, he said something really sweet to Matt. He said, "Now I see you aren't like that at all. You are the most friendly person here. You talk to everyone. Now I remember not to judge a person at first." We laughed and said, yeah, you should wait for the jet-lag to wear off before making an accurate assessment.
The fancy kitchen at the BOH center.
Wow, what I take for granted.
Matt, in his element of technology and making children laugh.
The children all raising their finger-puppets in the air for a picture.
If you look hard you can see another member of our team in the back left-corner.
Mike Chang from PA.
He was the giver of our group - always giving something away to us on the team. I told him that if we were in Kindergarten he would receive the "Sharing Award." He was so kind and attentive to everyone.
Plus, it was great that the Indian personnel at the airports always asked if he was Mike Chang, the famous tennis player - also from Taiwan ... funny!
Our friend on staff, Tony Rizzo, told us before hand how great Mike was. In fact, when Matt mentioned to Tony how he wasn't sure if we were sitting together on the plane, and that we might ask for new seat assignments so we could sit together, Tony quipped that Matt might not want to switch if he was sitting next to Mike Chang. Thanks, Tony ... Matt told me about that little conversation later ....
(turns out our seats were next to each other)
Above is Michael, another volunteer on our team from New Jersey. Matt and I were really impacted by his testimony and his close walk with the Lord. He is a new Christian (within the last ten years) and has that fresh urgency and dependency for the things of God that we lose sometimes. He also had some good marriage advice for us, and his sense of genuine care, love, and acceptance for others was a real picture of Christ.
Some tracts outside on of the GFA Bible Colleges, ready to be parceled out and given away.
It was neat to see all of the different ministries - tracts, biosand filters, Jesus Wells, BOH centers, RLM (Reaching Lepers Ministry), mobile team -- in action.
I was struck by how many areas in Delhi, Calcutta, etc, simply look abandoned - yet they are so many people living in an environment that if we saw here would just be abandoned.
Driving in Calcutta.
I am posting this pic for my dear cousin Sarah who shared a Europe adventure with me this summer.
Sarah - this is no Venice - but it reminded me of it, with the water going up to the doorways!
I definitely felt more at home in India than I did in Europe - it seemed like in Europe there is even more of the mindset we often see in America - the independent and self-seeking way of life. Everyone is looking out for themselves and is very separated from 'real' interactions.
In India, the people there seemed to be much more friendly and there was a sense of community in their way of life. I noticed this about everyone, not just the believers.
It made me realize the devastation that is very real to believers who are shunned from their villages for following Christ. In such a community-driven society, that excommunication would be even harder to bear.
rickshawing it in Calcutta
Right in the middle of Calcutta, an "H & M" store, jk, jk
Sweet sisters we shared some time with in Calcutta at the Bible College.
They were in town doing something with or for the Ladies Ministry.
I think they may have been on their internship from the seminary .... ?
A worship service/celebration at the Bible College
Auspicious - I'll have to look that up.
We were incredibly, beyond measure blessed to be visiting India around the time of the BOH's annual celebration. We attended 3 Bridge of Hope Annual celebrations - one in Purulia, one in Calcutta, and one in the West Bengal Islands .....
but, more of that in another post which shall commence with our train ride to Purulia to visit the RLM (Reaching Lepers Ministry).